As a substitute of sharing the standard issues I am grateful for (well being, household, being Asian, and so forth.), I assumed I might share some uncommon issues I am grateful for this yr!
2023 was imagined to be a return to easy living. Alas, I do not really feel very relaxed. The mixture of retaining Monetary Samurai going and being a dad is grinding me down.
By going by a listing of typical issues to be glad about, even when lots of them are dangerous, I hope to really feel extra appreciative of every thing. That is what this time of the yr is for!
I hope you’ll carry out this private train as properly.
5 Uncommon Issues I am Grateful For
Irrespective of how disappointing some issues are, I at all times prefer to look on the brilliant facet of issues. So right here goes nothing.
1) Grateful for native authorities corruption
When you’ve a $14+ billion annual San Francisco finances, it is exhausting to not have some corrupt officers. Cash and energy can carry out the worst in individuals.
However let us take a look at the brilliant facet of metropolis officers taking bribes. It means it is exhausting to get issues carried out resulting from excessive requirements and tons of competitors. If getting issues carried out within the metropolis have been simple, we may be jeopardizing the well being and security of our denizens.
See: Former SF Public Works Director Gets Sentenced To 7 Years In Prison
Tough to rework or construct new property
One instance of authorized bribery is paying a “allow expediter” to get your housing allow accepted or accepted quicker. When you do not pay for one, your allow could possibly be held hostage for months and even years.
In 2005, after I was 28, I constructed a brand new full rest room out of a closet. My normal contractor suggested me to pay $1,200 for a allow expeditor so I did. He advised me, “That is simply how issues work within the metropolis.”
It sounded fishy on the time however as this was my first time transforming, I did not know higher. The allow expeditor I paid was charged with bribery a yr later.
By making it troublesome to rework and construct new houses, the town helps assist current residence costs by artificially proscribing provide. In consequence, current San Francisco owners have skilled better residence value appreciation than cities with much less corrupt buildings and planning departments.
Additional, in case you can full a intestine transform, your property should be much more valuable since it is so exhausting to get permits and go the rigorous inspection course of.
Let’s go authorities inefficiency and corruption!
See: Ex-SF Building Inspectors Took Bribes
2) Grateful to the Fed for creating boom-bust cycles
As a substitute of elevating and chopping rates of interest regularly, the Fed takes an aggressive method, which creates boom-bust cycles.
Throughout price cuts in 2020 to counteract the pandemic, we made some huge cash in 2020 and 2021 with shares and actual property. As soon as the Fed began mountain climbing charges aggressively in 2022, we purchased shares at a reduction. Now the S&P 500 is up ~20% and the NASDAQ is up ~45% YTD in 2023. What a blessing!
Due to aggressive price hikes, I used to be additionally capable of purchase an exquisite property at a cheaper price 17 months after I first noticed it in Might 2022. The Fed’s price hikes purchased me 17 months of time to save lots of, make investments, and recuperate from my inventory market losses.
With out an aggressive Fed, the home would have gotten bid up past my household’s attain.
Thanks Fed for giving me the chance to raised maintain my household! As a father, one of many prime priorities is to supply a household a snug residence on a protected neighborhood.
Lastly, because of the Fed, we will now all earn ~4.84% risk-free revenue for as much as 20 years in Treasury bonds if we would like. Incomes such a excessive risk-free rate of interest with inflation heading again to 2.5% or decrease is a generational win. Tens of millions extra savers will expertise better monetary safety because of this.
3) The intense facet of OpenAI altering to a for-profit firm
OpenAI, the AI firm which created ChatGPT started as a non-profit firm to assist all of humanity. However the leaders quickly realized the money-making potential in ChatGPT, in order that they switched to a for-profit construction. After elevating an amazing quantity of funding, hiring prime expertise, and innovating, the corporate is now price ~$86 billion.
When an organization is price $86 billion, it will get to rent much more individuals, which is nice for cities the place OpenAI has places of work (San Francisco, Seattle, and so forth.). As well as, the speedy creation of an $86 billion firm will increase the will to create new opponents. Venture capitalists are funding AI corporations left and proper!
Anthropic, an in depth OpenAI competitor, for instance, got here out of nowhere and is now price ~$30 billion. Not dangerous for an AI firm which can also be supposedly not revenue pushed.
Inside a number of years, all this sudden wealth creation has created hundreds of recent millionaires and dozens of billionaires within the San Francisco Bay Space. In the meantime, hundreds of recent jobs can be created.
If OpenAI had determined to stay a non-profit and dependable to its mission to assist humanity, all this wealth creation doubtless would have by no means occurred. Hooray for greed!
AI Is A Vacuum Cleaner Of Capital
Now there may be one other sturdy local economic catalyst for the San Francisco actual property market and financial system. I anticipate there to be much more AI corporations created because of hundreds of recent financially unbiased staff at OpenAI, Anthropic, and so forth branching off. This occurred a number of years after corporations like Google and Fb went public. As soon as the shares absolutely vest, staff love to do their very own factor.
With a virtuous wealth cycle concentrated within the Bay Space, it is now harder to leave San Francisco as a result of extra nice fortunes can be made. The AI revolution is simply getting began.
It is significantly better to dwell at AI headquarters than be outdoors the partitions the place AI can be systematically eliminating thousands and thousands of jobs over time. I hope this does not occur, nevertheless it’s an inevitability when an organization is making an attempt to maximise earnings.
If you would like to spend money on AI, take a look at the Innovation Fund. Roughly 35% of the fund is invested in non-public development corporations within the AI house.
You may see what the Innovation Fund is holding earlier than deciding to speculate and the way a lot. The minimal is $10. Conventional enterprise capital funds require capital dedication first after which hope the overall companions will discover nice investments.
4) Grateful for perpetual rejection
Once I did not get promoted to Managing Director in 2011, after 10 years of loyal service to Credit score Suisse, I made a decision to plot a plan to get laid off. The thought to negotiate a severance package with all my deferred money and inventory got here to me whereas sitting at a bar in sunny Santorini, Greece. Then I made it occur six months later.
Having the ability to stroll away from banking with cash in my pocket was a dream come true. Banking was making me in poor health. Inside a yr after I left, all my persistent again ache, sciatica, and TMJ went away. The health benefits of early retirement are priceless.
Again then, I might have paid something to really feel wholesome once more. Little did I do know that every one it took for a wholesome physique was not working 60 hours per week for years beneath plenty of stress. Hooray for hitting the “bamboo ceiling”!
Turning job rejections into earnings
After getting rejected by dozens of tech corporations in 2012, I ended up shopping for plenty of tech shares. I figured, if I could not work for them, they’d work for me! The returns from these tech investments have made it potential for my household to eat at McDonald’s every single day for the remainder of our lives.
As soon as my spouse negotiated a severance in 2015 as a high performer, we now not had sponsored healthcare. After getting considered one of our medical insurance claims denied by UnitedHealthCare, I noticed what a robust enterprise it was. So I purchased some UNH inventory and it has blown away the S&P 500!
Getting rejected as a author
When no literary agent responded to me about my guide concept on learn how to negotiate a severance, I made a decision to self-publish. The guide has now bought hundreds of copies and has revamped $550,000 in web earnings.
I constantly get feedback and emails of thanks saying how How To Engineer Your Layoff gave them the braveness to depart a foul work scenario behind. It feels wonderful to alter individuals’s lives for the higher.
Getting rejected as an athlete
One of many saddest issues about being an athlete is getting previous. Sooner or later, you understand your physique will now not cooperate even when your thoughts continues to be sturdy.
In Spring 2023, I used to be rejected by the captain of a public park 4.5-level tennis group to affix his group. It was a tragic fall from grace given I had played at the 5.0 level for 4 years on different groups earlier than the pandemic. However with out this rejection, I would not have skilled one of the crucial satisfying wins of my life.
On July 6, 2023, my associate and I beat the captain who had rejected me and his associate 4-6, 6-3, 10-7 in a important playoff match. Ah, the win was so satisfying, so was seeing the melancholy on his face after he misplaced. Thanks Jeff for the priceless reminiscence! Public park groups are imagined to be inclusive.
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5) Decrease-than-average need to achieve success
One of many best destroyers of happiness is rarely being happy with what you’ve. As a result of a pal of mine misplaced his life at age 15, since 13, I’ve felt extra grateful to be alive. Each new yr looks like a bonus.
At 34, I made a decision I had had sufficient and left banking. It was exhausting to stroll away from a wholesome paycheck. I knew if I labored for simply 5 extra years, I might be capable of accumulate at the very least another $1 million in net worth. However I did not care anymore.
My passive investment income on the time wasn’t sufficient to dwell a wealthy life-style in San Francisco or Honolulu. But it surely was sufficient to dwell a snug middle-class life-style as a person or couple.
If my intent was to make thousands and thousands and get promoted to Managing Director, I might have been depressing for the following 5-10 years working lengthy hours. My well being would have suffered and perhaps I might have minimize a few years off my life expectancy.
Ok is sweet sufficient!
Fame will not be price it
I’ve discovered largely intrinsic motivation to do what I wish to do. Though fame might be alluring, fame does not maintain my curiosity. Consideration is like an dependancy that may break an individual’s psychological well being.
I tasted some public publicity for a few months throughout my Buy This Not That guide advertising tour in 2022. It was enjoyable to indicate my dad and mom the TV spots, however fame will not be one thing I might wish to be ongoing.
If you’re along with your youngsters on the playground, do you really need strangers coming as much as you and interrupting your one-on-one time along with your little ones? I do not assume so.
All I would like is sufficient cash to maintain my household, do significant work, and have the freedom of being a nobody. A easy life is an effective life.
So Many Extra Uncommon Issues I am Grateful For
I may go on about extra uncommon issues I am grateful for. However I will not bore you.
There are two details to this submit:
1) Attempt to look on the brilliant facet of issues. Unhealthy issues occur on a regular basis. Practice your thoughts to change into extra optimistic by searching for the potential positives. When you do, you will discover extra alternatives and really feel happier because of this.
2) Do not cease making an attempt. You’ll by no means lose in case you by no means surrender. Do not underestimate the facility of grit. It does not matter in case you fail. What issues is that you just tried and can carry on making an attempt.
Joyful Thanksgiving everybody!
I am curious what are some uncommon belongings you’re grateful for? What are some fortunate breaks you have had?
Be aware: I am not likely grateful for corruption, boom-bust cycles, authorities pink tape, and greed taking on AI. Rejections at all times stink as properly. I am simply making an attempt to take a look at the positives of suboptimal conditions.
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Thankful For Luck: A Phone Call That Changed My Life for The Better
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